Key Takeaways
- Most investing mistakes stem from fear or misinformation—not poor judgment.
- Avoiding the market can be just as costly as taking on too much risk.
- Consistent strategies often outperform reactive decision-making.
- Confidence in investing grows through education and experience, not perfection.
As women enter top-earning professions at higher rates and make up a growing share of heirs in the Great Wealth Transfer, they are becoming wealthier than ever before.
Many women fear financial decisions, finding these choices overwhelming or paralyzing in a financial world that often seems complex and unforgiving. While there is no “right” or “wrong” way to invest, unbalanced mindsets or money habits can set back your long-term financial goals.
These behaviors are far more common than most people realize, and they aren’t signs of poor judgment or weak discipline but the result of low confidence, mixed financial messaging, and limited access to investing education.
Here are some common setbacks women face when investing and managing their money, and how to avoid them.
Waiting Too Long to Invest
Many women delay investing because they’re waiting to feel more confident or informed. While caution is understandable, waiting comes at a cost. Time is one of the most powerful tools in investing, and delaying market participation can mean missing out on years of potential growth and compounding.
“Women sometimes feel as though they need to be experts in specific fields prior to doing,” Hayley Wood Bates (CFP), a senior financial advisor at the firm SEIA, said. She added, “The reality is you don’t need to be an expert in Apple’s earnings and how to read their Q4. It’s beginning somewhere, and recognizing that just beginning is already ahead.”
Starting to invest does not require perfect knowledge or ideal conditions, and learning through practice can make investing seem more achievable.
Warning
Waiting to feel “ready” can be more costly than making small, imperfect investing decisions early.
Prioritizing Savings Over Investments
Building savings is a universally supported financial move, but many women continue to put extra cash into low-yield savings accounts after they have covered their emergency fund and other short-term needs. While cash feels safe and accessible, too much saving can sacrifice long-term growth for short-term security.
“Because women tend to live longer, there is heightened anxiety about outliving their savings, which can lead to overly cautious investment strategies that may not keep up with inflation,” Judy Herbst, Executive Director at the nonprofit Savvy Ladies, said.
Money that earns little to no return may struggle to keep pace with inflation, potentially jeopardizing long-term goals like retirement or homeownership. Once an emergency cushion is in place, excess funds are often better directed toward diversified investments to strike a healthier balance between stability and growth.
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Being Too Conservative for Too Long
Playing it safe may seem responsible, but managing risk is not the same as avoiding it. Many women default to conservative portfolios that favor cash or bonds, even when their goals are decades away and they can afford to take more risk.
“By holding a lot of cash, risk-averse women are not necessarily avoiding risk, but rather deferring risk,” Anh Thu Tran (CFP), founder of the firm Women’s Wealth, said. “If their portfolio doesn’t grow adequately with respect to their goals, like retirement, then they’ll likely have to take more market risk when they’re older and less financially capable to do so, due to less time to work and recoup from market downturn.“
Time horizon matters more than day-to-day market swings. For goals like retirement that may be 20 or 30 years away, some exposure to growth investments, such as stocks, may be necessary to build meaningful wealth.
Overmonitoring Investments
To stay informed and in control, some investors check their accounts daily or multiple times a day. But watching every market swing can create unnecessary stress, making normal fluctuations feel like urgent problems that need fixing.
“I think women’s focus is that they just want to understand and know that they’re secure, and then they want to know how it is that they can secure the people that they love around them, versus men who potentially just care about bottom-line performance,” Wood Bates said.
While emotional ties to money encourage thoughtful investing and meaningful goals, overmonitoring can intensify feelings of worry and disappointment during downturns. Over time, these amplified emotions can prompt impulsive decisions, such as selling during a dip or chasing recent winners.
Note
Research suggests that emotional barriers, such as fear of judgment, shame, or trust concerns, often play a bigger role in investment hesitation than a lack of financial knowledge.
How to Avoid These Mistakes Going Forward
The good news is that avoiding these common pitfalls doesn’t require much effort. Here are some concrete strategies that will make a meaningful difference over time:
- Automate contributions: Set up recurring transfers to retirement or brokerage accounts to eliminate decisions about market timing.
- Set clear goals and timelines: Identify specific investment objectives and deadlines to assess your risk tolerance based on your time horizon and goals, rather than on fears or impulses.
- Revisit, but don’t obsess: Set times quarterly or annually to check your portfolio and avoid emotional reactions to market swings.
- Seek professional advice: A trusted financial advisor can provide clarity, but short-term solutions like the Savvy Ladies free financial helpline can also reassure you in moments of need.
Savvy Ladies’ Helpline Survey Results
Herbst found that “When we asked what typically holds them back, the most common response was feeling uncomfortable about income differences… Fear of judgment, shame, and embarrassment came in a close second. Many women also pointed to trust issues, concerns about being taken advantage of, and growing up being taught that money is a private topic. In contrast, only 13% feel that finances are too complex a topic to discuss, suggesting that the barriers lie more in emotional discomfort than in a lack of capability.”
The Bottom Line
The decisions you make today with your money shape your financial future. Waiting to start, holding excess savings, avoiding growth investments, or checking accounts, too often can all feel protective in the moment, but they may quietly limit long-term progress. Recognizing these patterns is the first step toward changing them.
By taking small steps and focusing on long-term goals, women can build both wealth and confidence over time. Investing doesn’t require perfection or expertise. It requires consistency and a willingness to begin.